You love him because he is not, because he is you. This is being so; you must learn to accept him in his totality as a person. Growth is brought about by your indifference, which is one way or another, cultivates the relationship. It is also important to remember that trust is a vital element of many relationships. Unconditional trusts, no ifs and no buts. When you love, honestly love then you must be willing to sacrifice. There are times when hurts go so deep, when the pain is almost unbearable when you are about to give up. But loving is not giving up easily. It is being there when all have gone, when there is little strength left, when it is too much to stand. Loving is trusting. Loving is letting be. There really no difference between (as a matter of fact way) and (the romantic way) you might just be in a different plane of understanding which maybe a cause of misinterpretation.
When he says hes honest with you, then dont kill yourself by saying hes not. How did you know? His past experience is not enough to doubt him. If he can give you his (as a matter of fact way) of loving to the best, then accept it. And if he can love you the (romantic way), then do so. Please do not measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other and have an open channel of communication constantly where there is a free sharing of ideas, no ifs and no buts.
Nobody promises you a rose garden but you are a promise. Get the best out of it. Love and get hurt, learn and love again. It is a cycle my friend. It is a cycle of being experience the cycle.
ehmpoi
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kyut dva!!!
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